I need help with my relationship with my mom?

It sounds like you have some sort of a trust issue with your Mom.My question is why does she feel that she can not trust you? Did you do something to piss her off well bad? Have you been hanging out with a bad-crowd of friends? You said that you drink some with your friends,but do not do drugs,is this true? Did your Mom catch you doing something she did not approve of,and it has become and issue,with you both? My suggestions would be too try your best too be trust worthy,by your Moms standards. Try showing her you can be responsible,by helping around the house,with the house work without being told too do it. Keeping your room picked-up,and maybe being nice and cooking dinner one night a week for the family,so that your mom can have a break now and then. Oh,and about the moving out,do you have somewhere too go? Must teenagers,think they can make it on there on,but they soon find out the cold hard truth about living in the real world. True you may be 17 years old,but you still have a lot too learn about making it in the real world. If you have some spare time,get a job as well,save your money,for quite sometime,and you may be able to move out on your on some day. Meanwhile,keep a level head about yourself,and stay away from other people who will get you into nothing but trouble. Being mature means,acting responsible,not just some of the time,but all of the time. You teenagers,are always in a hurry too grow-up,but my suggestion is too enjoy being young while you can.